Erotic Fantasy & Creativity

Erotica and creativity are connected. Many people who make love with each other have expressed their feelings and talent via art, music, painting with really impressive results!

Love and physical desire can come together in the one person. The psychologists remark that love and sex are linked in people’s minds. However, they are not the same. They may produce different and not connected psychological effects. Actually, they are different ways of perceiving the world.

How It is Working

Romantic love is related to dreamy wishes as well as long-term plans of being together. But lust is more connected with the perception of “here and now”, with a desire to have a sexual activity together. Erotica can combine these both because it’s something in the middle and gives a huge impulse to create very special things. It can be something spiritual like a poem and material like sculpture.

The main questions are the following:

  • What motivates a creative person to constantly turn to erotic fantasy?
  • What is the leading motive in the behavior of a creative person?

A creative individual constantly experiences dissatisfaction, tension, unclear anxiety, revealing, in reality, the lack of clarity, simplicity, order, completeness, and harmony. It is like a barometer, responsive to contradictions, discomfort, and disharmony. With the help of erotic dreams an individual eliminates in his mind (and unconsciously) the disharmony he encounters in everyday life. He builds up a new world in which he feels comfortable and joyful. That is why the process of creativity and its products bring pleasure and require constant renewal.

Gaming Everywhere  

“Creative play” is a lifestyle the highest human needs: Inspiration, excitement, fascination, the intensity of experiences. Please do not confuse this term with sports, gambling, as the latter is held in a specially created setting (sports facilities, casinos, etc.). This very game does not have a specially arranged field. Its stadium is life as such and it serves a direct bridge of fiction from imagination to reality and being the best appreciated only by the players themselves.

Casual sex with a husband or regular partner is not a source of inspiration without hidden feelings, hints and some mystery. Without an intention to go beyond the limits, to ruin stereotypes and accept the body as something unique, it’s impossible to develop your potential in the field of art or any other fruitful activity.

Find new ideas and images in masteries of famous painters who loved life and women. Try to develop own sensitivity and express yourself in any new field of activity.

Contraindications For Sexual Abstinence For Men and Women

Excessive and prolonged celibacy can have a negative influence on health. Let’s talk about this in details.

Possible Consequences for Men

If there is an excessively long absence of sex, there is a predisposition to early ejaculation. This is not, in fact, a disorder and a sign of any disease, as if the normal rhythm of intimate contact is normalized, but can cause problems psychological nature.

Another sad result can be the fear of sexual intercourse, which is associated with the emerging early expulsion of the seed. A man may begin to think about possible impotence and avoid sexual relations. However, sexologists advise the opposite, to continue lovemaking with a regular partner and try to add variety to them. A loving woman will definitely understand the temporary difficulties of her partner and will help to overcome them.

Some Recommendations for Females

So what about young or mature women? The absence of sexual relations the female body and psyche endure more calmly. This statement is especially true for women after menopause or, on the contrary, for who have not yet reached childbearing age.

As for the other age groups, the following changes may occur:

  • Symptoms of premenstrual syndrome (notorious PMS) will be more pronounced and painful;
  • If sex life has previously been active, and then its regularity has declined, disturbances and restructuring of the menstrual cycle can be observed.

Regarding the allegations that being without coitus for a long time can cause tumors and uterine bleeding, this information should be attributed to the field of speculation, not confirmed by science.

In the psychological aspect, women with high temperament and libido have all the same effects as men: aggression, irritability, frequent mood swings, increased interest in sexual perversions. In addition, on the background of a long absence of sex, passionate women may develop a tendency to nymphomania or simply to promiscuous contacts.

During sexual intercourse in women, a special pleasure hormone is produced, which positively affects the mental state of a woman – it becomes less susceptible to depression and apathy. Nutritionists also have interesting information on this issue. They believe that girls and women who have regular acts of love without long breaks are not prone to gaining excess weight. Since copulating requires a huge energy release. There is also a controversial theory among a number of dermatologists who claim that regular and satisfying sex is the best tool for youth and skin health.


Assessing the above information, you can easily conclude that love and coitus are extremely important things. A man or woman should make a decision about abstinence, based on his temperament, character, inclinations, and state of health. But what is the use of such a decision? It’s a pleasure after all.

Excessive enthusiasm for celibacy can lead to negative consequences. Finally, we will give advice from the sexologists. It will be equally good for him & her: do not practice without a reason a restriction in making love especially in family life. It adversely affects the relations of partners, weakens the connection between them, and causes the desire to seek entertainment and comfort with another person outside the family.